Each person has a journey to either discover themselves or lose themselves trying to discover who they are and what they could possibly be in the future they trying to create with a copy of the original they used to be.
Losing yourself for the wrong reasons is the pain one could never get over it in time. The pain of losing yourself is not as bearable as the pain of losing someone who was close to you. The pain of losing someone close to you , you could try to find that person in the minds of memories he or she created or shared in each person. Losing yourself, you could never get yourself back in the pieces you left in other people because as you transition to a new new, the people into whom you surrounded yourself with created new memories of the transition form of yourself and deleted those you lost with the old new.
Losing yourself you the same as a broken glass…you could try to fix yourself pick up the pieces but you will never get yourself back. There will always be that one piece that was left behind, a piece that could have completed you but was lost in a world filled with people that are also broken who try to break or heal themselves through you and you end up losing yourself more than you could ever think that you were healing them. And now you are the one that is left to fill the void of the piece you lost while still trying the build the new you with a broken old you. No pain or challenge prepares you for the challenge you could ever possibly face when you lose the original you trying to fit it a world where they promote superficial concepts than real ones. A world where saying you broken, you weak. So why trade the real you to a world where the new you you trying to be burdens you more than the world itself …